How does one succeed in life?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How strict are your parents?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

How do military families balance personal political views with respect for civilian leadership?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Why do people who aren't trans feel the need to put pronouns next to their name or picture? It seems so cringeworthy to me, to participate in that SJW paradigm of thought, like they are a spineless person who just goes along with the trends.

Ask yourself:

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What sexual experience did you have at a highway rest area?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Does not procrastinate.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How do military families handle communication when a service member is injured overseas?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What I need from you?

What do you remember that 95% of us have forgotten?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What is the most memorable thing that happened in your college days?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Making more friends is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

That's it for today.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.